Focus on early childhood key to intellectual progress

We have a one-year-old daughter and we want to raise her right. I’ve heard that parents can increase the mental abilities of their children if they stimulate them properly during the early years.

Question: We have a one-year-old daughter and we want to raise her right.

I’ve heard that parents can increase the mental abilities of their children if they stimulate them properly during the early years. Is this accurate, and if so, how can I accomplish this with my baby?

Answer: Research has shown that parents can, indeed, increase the intellectual capability of their children.

This conclusion was first reached through the renowned Harvard University Preschool Project.

A team of researchers led by Dr. Burton White studied young children aged eight to eighteen months over a 10-year period, hoping to discover which experiences in the early years of life contribute to the development of healthy, intelligent human beings.

The results of this important study are summarized below.

a. It is increasingly clear that the origins of human competence are to be found in a critical period of development between eight and eighteen months of age.

The child’s experiences during these brief months do more to influence future intellectual competence than any time before or after.

b. The single most important environmental factor in the life of the child is his or her mother.

“She is on the hook,” said Dr. White, and exercises more influence on her child’s experiences than any other person or circumstance.

c. The amount of live language directed to a child (not to be confused with television, radio or overheard conversations) is vital to his or her development of fundamental linguistic, intellectual and social skills.

The researchers concluded, “Providing a rich social life for a twelve- to fifteen-month-old child is the best thing you can do to guarantee a good mind.”

d. Those children who were given free access to living areas of their homes progressed much faster than those whose movements were restricted.

e. The nuclear family is the most important educational delivery system.

If we are going to produce capable, healthy children, it will be by strengthening family units and by improving the interactions that occur within them.

f. The best parents were those who excelled at three key functions:

1. They were superb designers and organizers of their children’s environments.

2. They permitted their children to interrupt them for brief, thirty-second episodes, during which personal consultation, comfort, information and enthusiasm were exchanged.

3. They were firm disciplinarians while simultaneously showing great affection for their children.

Occasionally, information comes along that needs to be filed away for future reference.

These findings from the Harvard University Preschool Project are that significant.

You will not want to forget these six findings. I believe they hold the keys to raising healthy children.

Question: I have a friend who is a frequent victim of spousal abuse.

How would she go about dealing with her husband’s problem?

Answer: The principles of Love Must be Tough offer the best response to an abusive husband.

They begin with a recognition that behavior does not change when things are going smoothly.

If change is to occur, it usually does so in a crisis situation. Thus, a crisis must be created and managed very carefully.

After moving out and making it clear that the woman has no intention of returning, the ball moves to her husband’s court.

If he never responds, she never returns.

If it takes a year, or five years, then so be it.

He has to want her badly enough to face his problem and to reach out to her.

When (and if) her husband acknowledges that he has an abusive behavior pattern and promises to deal with it, negotiations can begin.

A plan can be agreed upon that involves intensive Christian counseling with a person of the wife’s choosing.

She should not return home until the counselor concludes that she will be safe and that the husband is on the way to recovery. Gradually, they put their relationship back together.

James Dobson is founder and Chairman Emeritus of the nonprofit organization Focus on the Family, Colorado Springs, Colo. 80995 (www.focusonthefamily.org).

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